When I first started exploring slow living, I didn’t realize how much it would change the way I see the world, and myself. It felt like a simple idea at first: take things a little slower, be more mindful, and appreciate the little moments. But over time, it’s become a quiet kind of guide for me, showing me what matters most.

One of the first lessons I learned is that slow living isn’t about doing less, it’s about doing things with intention. I’ve found that when I give my time and energy to things that make me happy, whether that’s baking a rustic loaf of bread, tending to the garden, or sharing a cup of tea with a friend, life feels richer, even on the busiest days.

Another thing I’ve discovered is that beauty doesn’t always shout. It’s often found in the small, ordinary things: like the sound of the kettle whistling, the soft creak of an old floorboard, or the sweet scent of herbs drying in the kitchen. Learning to notice these moments has made me more grateful, more present.

Slow living has also taught me to let go of perfection. There’s no need to rush to keep up with everyone else, it’s okay to move at my own pace, to leave space for rest and reflection. In a world that values constant productivity, that’s been one of the hardest, and most rewarding lessons of all.

Most importantly, slow living has helped me see that life is a collection of small, meaningful moments. When I look back on the past year, it’s not the big achievements that stand out, but the cozy dinners, the handwritten letters, the laughter shared around the table.

If you’re thinking of embracing slow living, start small. Light a candle tonight, sip your tea slowly, watch the sunset, or take a walk without checking the time. Those little moments add up, and they can change everything.

If you’d like to explore more about building a slower, more intentional life, you might enjoy my book, The Cottagecore Project. It’s filled with cozy inspiration, gentle reflections, and simple ways to bring cottagecore living into your everyday routine.